buddhiman, samagdar and moorkh

moorkh speaks before listening and he knows everything in advance 

samagdar speaks after listening and add from his side 

buddhiman listen and do not speak. 

purpose of life

 buddhism -- middle path 

jainism -- non-violence 

hinduism -- moksha and many other as per the school of thoughts such as 

yoga -- means understanding environment and acting as per needs,

          --for adding to environment me need knowledge i.e. gyan yoga
          --also we need a calm mind i.e. raj yoga 
         --detechment i.e. bhakti yoga 

nyaya -- it brings peace so ultimately moksha

vedanta -- 

                dwait -- male and female are different means body and mind are different so meditate on mind 

                adwait -- linga represents atma i.e. nor body nor mind 

charwak -- whatever our body can feel is real and nothing else. 

in modern times I think the puropose of life is to create options. Rich have more options than poor. 

just burn plastic.

 environment, our physical one. the biggest problem is plastic why are we not allowed to burn it. Just because we are not advised by the Western world to do so. Sometimes I feel like one day a leader will come and jolt us to this vision of let's burn plastic. Just like a few days back we were told that no cream can make us fairer. 

relation

 family -- you for me, me for you

father -- advise

mother -- pardon (maafi)

brother -- partner (bhagidari)

wife -- half (of what we are) 

friend -- understanding 

lets understand these with some examples 

father -- Mirzapur movie -- Mother of Guddu and Bablu takes them to a shop and asks for revenge but their father is adamant about not letting his sons go down the wrong path. 

mother -- if you commit crimes like killing, raping, terrorism, and so on ... only your mother can demand one more chance, instead; your father, brother, friend, etc may demand an appropriate punishment.

Brother -- we do good or we do bad but our brothers always get the credit for that, especially by way of comparison; for example Ambanis, 

friends-- suppose u want to commit a crime like theft, rape, etc. Only a friend understands the need to do the same. otherwise brother will go away and mother will deny and the father may call the police.

 limitation of these relations 

father -- a father and son will always compete for power and will try to convince each other that others want to obey themselves, not the other one.

mother -- have no limitations and the relationship lasts without any struggle

brother -- land dispute is unresolvable among them 

wife -- wife's habit of nagging on petty matters and husband's habit of going into isolation mode in which they refuse to listen and respond to wife's continuous talking.

friend -- we became friends because we share a common space and once the long-distance relationship starts then we can no longer stay as good as we were once.